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Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Chotchkes, Goals and Miracles

We have too many chotchkes in our home—I can’t find a place for them all! Decorations, souvenirs, art projects. We have someone’s ticket to an Olympic event, my baby photo, a button supporting local food, and a crystal bear that I keep because it bemuses me. (I am oddly troubled by trying to decide whether it’s ugly and tacky or the cutest thing ever. The craftsmanship’s nothing special, but the love it symbolizes is everything.) I keep them because they are non-photographic snapshots of our daily lives, but they take up space and get dusty. Some days they feel cluttery.

Today I was trying to make space for two large seashells plucked off the beach in Florida when I was seven. My mother took care of them over the ensuing years, ensuring that they survived our many moves and travels. (Oh the pressure I feel now that I have them.) The shells are lovely but large and I wasn’t sure how to make everything fit. Suddenly I realised I could stand the shells on their heads instead of displaying them horizontally. They take up way less shelf space and everything fits. Ta da—problem solved.

What a life lesson: sometimes all it takes is a change of orientation. Even when you think you've tried everything, there’s often a solution that hasn’t been considered because it’s beyond your present sense of possibility.

This is the way we should work in our lives—envision a clear goal and don’t worry too much about how to get there. When you hold a goal (all this stuff has to fit on that shelf) and don’t worry about how you’ll achieve it, you make space for miracles to happen.