Be A Model (Or Just Act Like One)

Every time we go outside or interact with people, we are teaching them how to communicate, both by creating norms—how others are doing it—and by demonstrating what works (or doesn’t). 

We are ambassadors; leaders in the quest for gracious, efficient communication. Even those who don’t normally think of ourselves as leaders need to recognize our influence on the world around us. So think twice before you cut someone off in traffic or conversation, cross the street against a light, or speak with someone in public service. You're not only affecting that person, you're teaching everyone around you. Be a model. Or... just act like one.

You Might Like To….

Thich Nhat Hanh gives instructions framed as “You might like to…” What a transformative concept.

Saying You might like to, instead of You have to is refreshingly respectful and helpful. He’s not telling us what to do. He trusts that the answers we find inside are the best ones, and that our choices will be good. 

You might like to… and I know you will find the way that’s best for you creates a lot of space to honour and implement our own goals and methods.  

It’s an excellent attitude to bring to friends, family, and the parenting of teenagers. Here’s what I have to offer. I hope it helps, but while I love and want the best for you, the choices are yours to make.