If you are doing things because that’s the way it’s always been done, then you are living someone else’s life, not your own. How can anyone possibly know what is right for you?
Just because someone else wants you to do things a certain way doesn’t make it right for you. You need to develop the strength to do things your own way. To live life on your own terms. So what if they get upset? That’s their problem, not yours. If you are living in integrity with your highest self, you could not possibly do any different, and someone asking you to do so is not loving.
Perfect yourself first before working on others. Sure, help out and even offer suggestions, but be ok when suggestion are rejected. Stick to perfecting yourself.Just because someone else wants you to do things a certain way doesn’t make it right for you. You need to develop the strength to do things your own way. To live life on your own terms. So what if they get upset? That’s their problem, not yours. If you are living in integrity with your highest self, you could not possibly do any different, and someone asking you to do so is not loving.
Imagine how peaceful the world would be if we all minded our own business.
Even what I write here is not an attempt to convince you. It’s thoughts and ideas that occur to me, and that make my life richer and fuller. I hope you can use it, so I offer it to you as a gift. Keep it, pass it on, or totally ignore it; I don’t mind.
